Hi! I am a spinster and none of relationships are working out. I am a very outgoing, career oriented girl. I am looking out for a guy who is open minded and caring but I find that most of the guys are looking out for quiet domesticated kind of girls! I donīt know what to do and am thoroughly confused.
My Career is going great but personal life is down in dumps!! Hoping for a practical advice.
Not so damsel but in distress.
Dear Not So Damsel But in Distress,
I am sorry that none of your relationships are working out. I can understand your situation but there is not much that you can do except for wait till you see some open minded and caring guys. From experience, I see that most South Asian guys have an ego and are always looking for the traditional domesticated girls. The idea to see a woman doing better than them drives them crazy.
From experience, once again, I have seen "traditional" guys that married to successful girls pushing girls out of their career and therefore insulting them. Most of the time this relationship ends up in a divorce, separation or the girl leaves her career and ends up being a housewife.
My advise for you is to continue searching throughly for guys, preferably from bit less traditional families and lived and brought up abroad. Maybe these guys could have a bit more of an open-mind to more career oriented girls.
Lots of Loves,
Note: The information provided herein is of general nature, and should not be construed as professional advice.